We get it. Trust isn’t easy. Everyone has their own history and their own reasons for keeping things close to the chest. But when it comes to wedding planning that’s a whole different story.
See the thing about weddings is that they aren’t just events. They’re emotional landscapes full of memory-infused experiences and full-on productions that need direction depth and a whole lot of intention. And guess what? None of that can happen if you keep your planner in the dark.
“So How Did You Two Meet?”
This is where it starts. A simple seemingly casual question. But when your planner asks how you met they aren’t just making small talk. They’re trying to understand the essence of your story and the little details that make your love unique.
Saying “Oh we met at the market through a friend”? Sure that’s technically an answer. But it tells us absolutely nothing about you.
Now if you said “We met at a market while fighting over the last perfectly ripe avocado and somehow that ridiculous moment turned into a three-hour coffee date” that is something we can work with.
Why It Matters
Every detail you share gives us something to build on. Your love story isn’t just a checklist of “met dated got engaged.” It’s a living breathing tale full of moments that can shape your wedding day.
Do you love spontaneous adventures? Maybe that means surprise elements at your reception. Are you all about cozy nights in? Then let’s create an intimate candlelit setting.
But without that level of insight your wedding could end up feeling generic like any other wedding you’ve seen before. It could look like you hired someone who just ticked off a bunch of boxes on a standard list rather than someone who understood your vision your personality and the life you want to create together.
The Takeaway?
Here’s the truth. If you don’t communicate deeply with your wedding planner you might prefer to hire a generic planner. Why pay for customizations and intricate details if there’s no base to work from? A wedding isn’t about following a mold. It’s about making sure every detail resonates with who you are.
Opening up is worth it!
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